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Most ace characters on TV besides Todd are relegated to one-off punchlines, implied to be unfeeling sociopaths, or stuck in headcanon. At other times, characters’ asexuality is actively erased (looking at you, Riverdale). So a sustained, sensitive story arc involving a main character is a huge breakthrough for asexual viewers; it was also the catalyst for my own coming out. But to move the representation conversation forward, we must go beyond lauding the mere act of putting an ace character on screen and examine why exactly the effort works so well.
Sexuality is a broad and nuanced spectrum. Someone falling for a person who’s outside their own perceived attractions and not wanting to overhaul the entire concept of their sexuality is perfectly legitimate. The problem with media telling that particular story over and over again, however, is that it suggests every bi, pan, or queer sexuality story is just a temporary layover on the way to a more palatable, monosexual destination.
'Brooklyn Nine-Nine' saved by NBC → cnn.com
Brooklyn Nine-Nine” by design incorporated a wide range of tensions about policing into its plot and characters. Holt’s marginalization as a black, gay officer was a core motivation for his character and the critical influence on how he ran the precinct. Peralta’s obsession with an earlier era of the NYPD, one defined both by big cases and grotesque civil rights violations, was the flaw he had to grow beyond to become a truly great cop. “Brooklyn Nine-Nine” was never solely an issue show, but its commitment to approaching policing from an ethical place was fundamental to its sense of decency, a quality which was itself fundamental to the series.

Goodbye, ‘Brooklyn Nine-Nine.’ And Thank You. | Alyssa Rosenberg for the Washington Post 

Fox canceled Brooklyn Nine-Nine, and Twitter is rightfully angry. This show did wonders for thoughtful, authentic representation; I’m really sad to see it go. 

The New York Times ran a headline last summer: “In One Day, Trump Administration Lands 3 Punches Against Gay Rights.” But the first punch that day had nothing do with with gay rights: It was “a tweet from President Trump announcing a ban on transgender people serving in the military." 

The Times — which I get delivered, read daily, and which makes up 92% of my recycling — gets this wrong a lot. 


But this isn’t just about the Times. It’s about how transgender people are understood in America. Misconceptions about gender identity frequently animate prejudices against transgender people, driving many of the stories about them that become news. Media should clear up those misunderstandings, not fuel them. 


Referring to transgender issues as “gay” reinforces the myth that transgender people are defined by sexual predilection. Look no further than campaigns to deny transgender people’s access to restrooms to see how their gender identity is equated with dangerous sexuality.

The unspoken factor in Amazon’s search for a new home: Jeff Bezos’s support for gay rights → washingtonpost.com

‘Being a queer black woman in America…someone who has been in relationships with both men and women – I consider myself to be a free-ass motherfucker.’ She initially identified as bisexual, she clarifies, 'but then later I read about pansexuality and was like, ‘Oh, these are things that I identify with too.’ I’m open to learning more about who I am. … 

I want young girls, young boys, nonbinary, gay, straight, queer people who are having a hard time dealing with their sexuality, dealing with feeling ostracized or bullied for just being their unique selves, to know that I see you. This album is for you. Be proud.

Janelle Monáe. The Rolling Stone interview. YES.

The Most Influential People of 2018 Are LGBTQ+ | via Them → them.us
Being a part of the LGBT community, which recognized that reporting I was doing early on and elevated it, and has been such a stalwart source of support through the sexual assault reporting I did involving survivors who felt equally invisible — that has been an incredible source of strength for me. LGBT people are some of the bravest and most potent change agents and leaders I have encountered, and the most forceful defenders of the vulnerable and voiceless, because they know what it’s like to be there.

Ronan Farrow in a speech at the Point Foundation, where he was honored for his journalistic contributions to the #MeToo movement and confirmed that he is LGBTQ, too. (via the Advocate

Meet Marvia Malik, Pakistan’s first transgender TV news anchor! (via BBC)

Meet Marvia Malik, Pakistan’s first transgender TV news anchor! (via BBC)