Now I get it! 

Anonymous asked: There's this guy at my work and he told me he was in love with me. I told him he was weird, and laughed it off and he laughed with me. Then the next day, after a lot of thinking, I realized I have feelings for him too. So I kissed him and he kissed me back but I don't know what to do now. I didn't think a guy could "love" another guy but I definitely have feelings for him. I feel defective. What if people laugh at us like I laughed at him at first? I don't think we can be together. What should I do?

A guy can definitely love another guy, and messy as this is, it’s good that you’ve seen the light. If you care about each other and you both want to be together, you should be together. If you’re really worried about how people will react, you don’t have to be public about it at first - especially since there’s a chance your work doesn’t approve of employees dating. If you think it will make you happy, go for it. There’s nothing wrong with trying things out, even if you thought they were weird before. You won’t know what makes you happy until you try! I hope this helps and thanks for reading! 

Amen.