After enormous backlash to their announcement that married same-sex couples should be referred to only as “partners,” the Associated Press has announced a reversal of their original decision. A person’s same-sex spouse may be referred to as their husband, wife, spouse or partner.

The following entry was added today to the AP Stylebook Online and also will appear in the new print edition and Stylebook Mobile, published in the spring: 

husband, wife Regardless of sexual orientation, husband or wife is acceptable in all references to individuals in any legally recognized marriage. Spouse or partner may be used if requested.

“The AP has never had a Stylebook entry on the question of the usage of husband and wife,” said AP Senior Managing Editor for U.S. News Mike Oreskes. “All the previous conversation was in the absence of such a formal entry. This lays down clear and simple usage. After reviewing existing practice, we are formalizing ‘husband, wife’ as an entry.” 

We spoke and they listened. Thank you, AP, for abolishing a rule that made us “separate but equal.”